Product Play: For Added Flavor

Let’s be honest. No one is peaches and sunshine all the time. Whether they have a sour attitude of a bitter taste romance can easily be squelched by these turn offs. The attitude cannot always be helped but flavored edible products can perk up the situation. It also helps that some of the products sold on the market can be multi-purpose.

Nipple Nibbler, while having an interesting name, is a gentle, edible stimulator. It is a thick gel that when applied gives a tingling sensation. This sensation increases blood flood to the area where it is used. Personally, I have found this product to be an effective substitute for chapstick. Nipple Nibbler also acts as a lip plumper.  It comes in a tub that will last for a significant amount of time.

For those that might feel awkward carrying a tub of Nipple Nibbler around there is Nipplicious which comes in a container that looks like standard chapstick. This makes for much more discrete use.

Both come in a variety of flavors to choose from.

The effectiveness of this product depends on the sensitivity of the user. I have never come across a “bad batch” but, there are people that require stronger products for the same result.

Bonus tip #1: This product can be used any place on the body that has sensitive nerves. The tingling can last for a good amount of time.

Bonus tip #2: Use either of these products before lipstick application to help retain moisture. These products can help your lips look fuller when used before lipstick application.

Toy Talk: Get on the Ball

In a world of self-improvement and cosmetic surgery there are a lot of attempts to reclaim what is perceived to be lost.  The one that has surfaced within the past few years is the idea of re-virginization. There is a surgery that can actually re-attach the hymen and, by some definitions, make the woman a virgin for the second time. For those that cannot afford to spend thousands of dollars for this procedure there is an alternative.  Ben Wa balls serve as a weight for kegel exercises. Kegels are a way to exercise the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles that run from the abdomen to the buttocks.

Ben Wa Balls add a level of resistance that is similar to the weight training for arms, legs, etc. While the idea of weight training for a vagina may inspire laughter for many there are some serious benefits to the practice. Sorry guys. Strengthening the male PC muscle has to be done without the added resistance of Ben Wa Balls.

Ben Wa Balls come in pairs and are either metal or glass. For women just starting out, I recommend the metal ones. They are rather heavy so it is unlikely that they will get stuck and if they get dropped there is no chance of them breaking. The glass ones are much more aesthetically pleasing (often they have little glass flowers inside the) but, if they get dropped micro-fractures can form and get worse if they are not used carefully.

The best advice I, or anyone that knows what they are talking about, can give people is to take it slow. Just because Ben Wa Balls come in pairs does not mean that they need to be used in pairs.

Start out with just using the PC muscle to hold one ball in for five minutes. The five minutes is not consecutive.  It is a sequence of alternating periods of squeezing for a few seconds then relaxing for a few seconds. The goal is for the sequence to last five minutes. After that becomes easy the goal is increased to 15 minutes, then 30 and finally 45. Once a person gets comfortable doing the exercise for 45 minutes then the second ball is added and the time is reset to five minute. This entire process is set up to take a few months.

By doing kegel exercises, women strengthening a muscle that is used during sex, giving birth and everyday bodily functions.  This muscle is very important to understand because of all it does. The main benefit that I emphasize is that this is a cheap alternative to the surgical treatment for incontinence.  Regardless of anatomy, as people age there are muscles that weaken with lack of use.  Some exercise now can prevent the need for surgery, or diapers, later.

Just a word of advice… If you are just starting out and take a flight Do Not take the Ben Wa Balls with you. They do set off airport metal detectors. That could lead to an awkward conversation with the bag checkers.

Scent of Foreplay

Well, the force may not be real but pheromones are and they are for sale. Pheromones are a natural part of the human body. While they are not consciously smelled by most their effect can be easily detected. Have you every entered into a period of time where you get a sudden increase in attention from the opposite, or same, sex? You can thank your biology for that.

Pheromone products are very intriguing as well. These products can come in many shapes, sizes and purposes. Some products are designed to go directly on the skin and mix with the oils of the individual while others are intended to act as a pheromone infused Fabreze.

There are few things people should know before buying pheromone products.

Read the label to see if it can go on skin. While pheromones themselves are not skin irritants the additional chemicals may be. You can also ask the salesperson if they know about the product.

Some scents change. There are some products on the market that will actually change scent as it mixes with a person’s skin oils.

Some scents are fixed. There are some fragrances that remain the same in pheromone products depending on the purpose. Body dews/mists  do not always adjust to individual body chemistries.

There are specific places on the body that are best for using pheromone products. These include; wrists, inner elbow, neck, temples and the crown of the head. Points where either the blood vessels are close to the surface of the skin or skin oils are often present.

For those days when a little boost would be a good thing pheromones can help turn some heads.